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The Affectionate Eric Miller

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  Everyday I am reminded of how different I am from everyone I’ve ever met - and 99% of  that can be attributed to growing up with  Dick, MJ, and Eric.   Eric and I are also quite different - sometimes mutually incomprehensible.  I followed our father into his enchanting world of high culture while Eric had to invent his own identity.   He was no less serious in attaching himself to what he loved - and mostly that was family.  He loved being the paterfamilias - and eventually had four generations under one roof in Guam.  I never had to worry about our aging mother because he and Johanna took all the responsibility. God bless them! But he also loved whiskey.   I was surprised when he first started wearing such gear,  … and dismayed, years later, one evening when he totally forgot where he left his car. Police helped him find it. In the end, he was passing out in an SRO, paying for sex, and dying before his time.  This might be called...